Posted: April 1, 2023
Adapted heavily from a resource made by redditor poly_jane, here are some broad categories of discussions to consider when designing an intentional relationship. Instructions For each piece consider what you want as well as what you are willing to offer for yourself, your partner(s), or…
Posted: November 1, 2022
Why You Shouldn’t Go Alone: Importance of Personal Community When it comes to non-monogamy, one of the most common things I hear people say is that they feel alone. They may have a few close friends who are also non-monogamous, but for the most part,…
Posted: October 25, 2022
Why It’s Normal (and Even Healthy) to Feel Jealous We’ve all been there before – that nagging feeling in the pit of our stomach when we can’t help but feel a little bit jealous. Maybe your partner has been talking to someone else online, and…
Posted: October 11, 2022
Defining and Managing New Relationship Energy (NRE) Butterflies in your stomach and your head in the clouds – two ways that brand new relationships make us feel. We’re feeling great about ourselves, falling for someone amazing, and then BAM. We realize that we’re in a…
Posted: October 25, 2021
How to Set up a Successful Dating Profile Okay, so you’re finally ready to brave the world of both polyamory /swinging / kink life and online dating. You know who you are, you know what you want, and you’re comfortable in your skin (mostly). So,…
Posted: October 12, 2021
unny thing about escalators – they’re designed to go in one direction and trying to go against the flow of the moving steps is highly discouraged… and difficult. The relationship escalator is no different, which poses challenges for those of us who don’t always follow…