Posted: October 11, 2022
Defining and Managing New Relationship Energy (NRE) Butterflies in your stomach and your head in the clouds – two ways that brand new relationships make us feel. We’re feeling great about ourselves, falling for someone amazing, and then BAM. We realize that we’re in a…
Posted: October 25, 2021
How to Set up a Successful Dating Profile Okay, so you’re finally ready to brave the world of both polyamory /swinging / kink life and online dating. You know who you are, you know what you want, and you’re comfortable in your skin (mostly). So,…
Posted: October 12, 2021
Funny thing about escalators – they’re designed to go in one direction and trying to go against the flow of the moving steps is highly discouraged… and difficult. The relationship escalator is no different, which poses challenges for those of us who don’t always follow…
Posted: October 5, 2021
I will begin with an apology to anyone who landed here, hoping for tips and tricks to having sex on an escalator. If that is your passion, I wish you well in securing private access to one – can you rent a mall or maybe…
Posted: September 27, 2021
If your open relationship journey has been anything like mine, you’ll find many… opportunities for discussion present themselves. Some of the most intense arguments can happen after a date, playing, or scene (as appropriate to your polyamorous, swinging, or kink prefernces for the evening). Some…
Posted: June 1, 2021
Very likely you are already some kind of non-monogamous, especially if you found yourself here. There are many flavors to choose from with varying degrees of types of intimacy. Serial Monogamy Strictly speaking, monogamy is having only one romantic / sexual partner… ever. Think back…