Posted: March 22, 2022
You know the infamous “they” everyone’s always talking about? Well, one of the things I’ve heard “them” say is that you can only truly love someone as much as you love yourself. It’s no secret that being LGBTQ+, polyamorous, or ethically non-monogamous in today’s society…
Posted: February 8, 2022
One thing that we know about trauma is that is has an extreme effect on the human mind and body. Trauma can change a person – the way they perceive and understand things, how they react, and how they relate to others – but with…
Posted: January 24, 2022
In the last few years, the word trauma has become a bit of a buzzword. It could be because more people are choosing to live life more authentically – whether they are polyamorous, LGBT+, or into kink and BDSM – and as a result, experiencing…
Posted: November 15, 2021
No matter what kind of relationship you’re in, arguments, disagreements, and other conflicts are always going to arise. The question is, how do you deal with them? If you’re someone who identifies as polyamorous, swinger, kinky or LGBT+, your relationships may face more people and…
Posted: September 27, 2021
If your open relationship journey has been anything like mine, you’ll find many… opportunities for discussion present themselves. Some of the most intense arguments can happen after a date, playing, or scene (as appropriate to your polyamorous, swinging, or kink prefernces for the evening). Some…
Posted: July 13, 2021
There you are, sliding into a disaster like a car desperately trying to stop in the rain. The conversation is veering sharply into oncoming conflict and you’re trying to brace for impact. Just like in moments when your body believes you’re about to get into…