Posted: October 10, 2022
Accept What You Cannot Change: Accept One Another When you choose your partner, you automatically choose your set of irresolvable problems. For any other partner, you would have had a different set of irresolvable problems. This is very much like the set of ailments…
Posted: October 4, 2022
How to Determine Compatibility with Someone New When you’re looking for a new friend, it’s crucial to be able to determine compatibility. The same goes for friends with benefits and new long-term partners when you’re part of the non-monogamous community. You don’t want to spend…
Posted: March 29, 2022
Generally, four major discussions are found in relationships. These are certainly not the only ones, they are the ones I spend the most time helping people learn, hone, or practice. There’s a problem between us Gentle Start Up Dreams within Conflict Art of Compromise (2…
Posted: March 1, 2022
People like to believe that love is black and white. If you really loved me, you wouldn’t want to see other people… why am I not enough? That might have something to do with the fact that even though modern society is largely secular, organized…
Posted: February 22, 2022
Since there is no perfect relationship according to the Gottman Institute, no matter how well we discuss things, eventually we will argue, say, or do something we regret. This exercise is meant to help us talk about the same topic again, but a little better…
Posted: February 22, 2022
Rituals of Connections and Reconnections (say, after one partner comes back from a date?) needs to be thought out and planned between partners. An example of a Ritual of Connection is greeting each other at the end of the day. Will there be a hug?…