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Sometimes, even when we are interested in understanding our own, or a partner’s sexual desires or turn-ons, we don’t know how to ask. It’s such a big question: “what do you like” that it can be overwhelming. Here are 10 specific questions to give you…

Sexual intimacy is a multifaceted aspect of human relationships, influenced by individual desires, identities, and societal perceptions. Understanding the dynamics of sexual intimacy involves exploring many factors, including personal preferences, communication, and the negotiation of desires within relationships. Fortunately, conflicts within relationships can provide opportunities…

Here are a few of the common mistakes made by new people in the kink community. I see these regularly. They are often taken as red flags and may hurt your reputation before you even understand why they are not okay in this community. These…

The year of the Rabbit is soon to be gone, much like the excitement many Westerners have for those Gregorian New Year’s Resolutions. If your resolutions required a vast network of monetary and internal resources  you’ve never been able to focus on your goals before,…

Straight up, no cap, Gratitude is a super power! Praise kinksters know what I mean (and you’re doing so good today!) Every style of therapy (aka modality) I’ve studied or come across always talk about gratitude. Nearly every guru, coach, therapist, and award winner won’t…

Why You Shouldn’t Go Alone: Importance of Personal Community When it comes to non-monogamy, one of the most common things I hear people say is that they feel alone. They may have a few close friends who are also non-monogamous, but for the most part,…