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Libido Mismatch
Posted: May 4, 2023
The old joke is a nymphomaniac is anyone that has more sex than the therapist. A mismatch in libidos is not fun on either side. The higher libido partner often struggles with feelings of rejection, not being good enough, or weakening self identity. The lower…
Daily Check In
Posted: April 17, 2023
As a positive daily practice, especially as changes are happening, it can be helpful to check in with yourself and keep some data points on how you are doing. Here’s a simple one. Instructions Emotion word of the day It can’t be a word that…
Factors of Great Sex
Posted: April 4, 2023
The factors that make sex great are: Presence Connection Deep sexual / erotic intimacy According to research 50% of people have kink / fetish fantasies, 30% indulge. For those with such wants / needs, they are often highly connected with life and relationship satisfaction. Extraordinary…
Developing New Relationship Routines
Posted: April 1, 2023
Do you also not have a cleaning fairy? The sample list below contains the kinds of routines couples and families establish to create effective family functioning. Each of you look through the list and choose two areas you’d like to integrate regularly into relationship or…
Managing Gridlock When Stuck in Problem Solving
Posted: April 1, 2023
This exercise can help us work towards understanding and validating our partner’s perspective and feelings. Use Co-Summarizing skills. Questions to Ask the Speaker About the Ideal Solution to This Problem Tell me your ideal solution to this problem (do not worry about being realistic—remember, no…