Posted: June 22, 2021
Hey fellow human who also probably has a small subset of humans they love having in their lives… don’t you also hate them sometimes? What’s that about? A favorite couple of mine started their journey of love while both in high school, because it would…
Posted: June 15, 2021
The phenomenal 1986 film, Flight of the Navigator was a life changing experience for young Cody. I was determined that if the aliens chose me to scan to understand humanity they were getting the entire show, then I delved deep to see all the amazing…
Posted: June 1, 2021
Very likely you are already some kind of non-monogamous, especially if you found yourself here. There are many flavors to choose from with varying degrees of types of intimacy. Serial Monogamy Strictly speaking, monogamy is having only one romantic / sexual partner… ever. Think back…
Posted: May 25, 2021
In this post we talked briefly about not necessarily breaking up, but changing how a relationship looks. The relationship escalator is the societal belief that romantic relationships must continually be working towards new milestones of commitment or they are failing. Some of us prefer stairs…
Posted: May 17, 2021
There you are, cruising along, getting your runner’s high and it’s been a beautiful day with a wonderful workout partner. It’s only when you get to the end that you realize they’re not exactly with you. Maybe they ran faster, slower, a different trail, training…
Posted: May 10, 2021
A lot of the work I do as a therapist deals with one’s self identity and isolation. For some of us, even in a room crowded enough to give a golden retriever social anxiety we feel lonely, out of place. Some of us are in…