The Four Most Common “Big Discussions” in Relationships
Generally, four major discussions are found in relationships. These are certainly not the only ones, they are the ones I spend the most time helping people learn, hone, or practice.
There’s a problem between us
There’s a problem outside of us
Things are going well
There’s something to repair in our relationship
- Gentle Start Up
- Aftermath of a Regrettable Incident (A discussion became a fight)
- Atone, Attune, Attach (Somebody feels hurt or betrayed)
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