Relationship Repair
Posted: March 10, 2026
Repair, rather than apologizing, is about:
- Seeing the problem as the problem instead of your partner as the problem. Often there is a misunderstanding, assumption, or unfortunate system at play.
- Getting some sneak peaks into the “care and feeding” of manual of others
- Affirming trust
- Focused on emotional validation and solutions through changes
Here are repair tools:
- For when a specific moment or event went poorly: Aftermath of a Regrettable Incident
- For when there an unmet expectation or (felt) betrayal: Atone, Attune, Attach
- For when the last week or while has been going poorly: Aftermath of Failed Bids