Posted: November 15, 2021
No matter what kind of relationship you’re in, arguments, disagreements, and other conflicts are always going to arise. The question is, how do you deal with them? If you’re someone who identifies as polyamorous, swinger, kinky or LGBT+, your relationships may face more people and…
Posted: September 27, 2021
If your open relationship journey has been anything like mine, you’ll find many… opportunities for discussion present themselves. Some of the most intense arguments can happen after a date, playing, or scene (as appropriate to your polyamorous, swinging, or kink prefernces for the evening). Some…
Posted: July 13, 2021
There you are, sliding into a disaster like a car desperately trying to stop in the rain. The conversation is veering sharply into oncoming conflict and you’re trying to brace for impact. Just like in moments when your body believes you’re about to get into…
Posted: July 6, 2021
A common point of soreness in relationships is, “they don’t listen” and “I don’t feel heard”. Without clear, open, honest communication a thriving relationship is hard to have. The differing ways people communicate has led to such ideas that some are just from entire different…
Posted: June 22, 2021
Hey fellow human who also probably has a small subset of humans they love having in their lives… don’t you also hate them sometimes? What’s that about? A favorite couple of mine started their journey of love while both in high school, because it would…
Posted: May 3, 2021
Tropes are tropes and clichés are clichés for a reason. When I facilitated poly discussion groups and moderated poly communities I would joke that the answer that will get everybody out of here in 15 minutes is, “have you tried clear, open, honest communication?”. Obviously…