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Build a Map of your Partner’s Everyday Life

Build a Map of your Partner’s Everyday Life


This will help you understand each other’s external and internal worlds to build more accurate Love Maps



Ask questions and fill in the list below for your partner:


  • Who are the Cast of Characters in your partner’s life?
    • Who are your friends?


  • Who are your potential friends?


  • Who are your rivals, competitors, enemies?


  • What are some recent important events? (What has happened recently that is important?)


  • What are your current stresses? (What are some current stresses in  your partner’s life right now?)


  • What are your big worries? (What is your partner worried about, we worry about future events.)


  • What are your hopes and aspirations? (For themselves and others)

Notice that these are all open-ended questions to help pull out deeper answers.

Have any thoughts, questions, suggestions, or comments on this article? Wondering how to this can be applied, modified, or adapted to your polyamorous, swinging, kink/ BDSM, or otherwise interesting relationship? Feel free to reach out to us here.