Posted: March 29, 2023
The following is a list of gridlocked issues that other people have had in their relationships. In this exercise, see if you can imagine and identify a dream within each position. Make up a story, or narrative, for each side of the gridlock. In each...
Posted: March 29, 2023
In this exercise, the partners discuss a core problem area in their relationship , but they do not in any circumstances , try to solve it. The second part of resolving a gridlocked issue is to get the couple to find some give in each...
Posted: November 1, 2022
Why You Shouldn't Go Alone: Importance of Personal Community When it comes to non-monogamy, one of the most common things I hear people say is that they feel alone . They may have a few close friends who are also non-monogamous, but for the most...
Posted: October 25, 2022
Why It’s Normal (and Even Healthy) to Feel Jealous We've all been there before - that nagging feeling in the pit of our stomach when we can't help but feel a little bit jealous. Maybe your partner has been talking to someone else online, and...
Posted: October 11, 2022
Defining and Managing New Relationship Energy (NRE) Butterflies in your stomach and your head in the clouds - two ways that brand new relationships make us feel. We're feeling great about ourselves, falling for someone amazing, and then BAM. We realize that we're in a...
Posted: October 10, 2022
When you choose your partner, you automatically choose your set of irresolvable problems. For any other partner, you would have had a different set of irresolvable problems. This is very much like the set of ailments we develop as we age. Trick knees, bad back,...