Posted: September 27, 2021
If your open relationship journey has been anything like mine, you’ll find many… opportunities for discussion present themselves. Some of the most intense arguments can happen after a date, playing, or scene (as appropriate to your polyamorous, swinging, or kink prefernces for the evening). Some...
Posted: September 20, 2021
For the 3rd, and final for this round, discussion on Interpersonal Violence, we will talk a bit about how to survive / help survivors of abuse. Before Abuse Abusers have a highly accurate, internal radar for potential people to trap… to the surprise of many...
Posted: September 13, 2021
Last week we looked briefly at the types of abusers most often encountered. This week we will look at numerous, common types of abuse. People are complex, multifaceted, and creative… unfortunately so are the many forms abuse can take. This list tried to be thorough,...
Posted: September 7, 2021
In the programming world there is Linus’ Law: with enough eyes, all bugs are shallow. With enough people watching every concern becomes obvious. In ethically nonmongamous groups like polyamorous or swinger communitie we could say with enough partners all abuse becomes obvious. Frustratingly, this is...
Posted: July 16, 2021
If you happen to be a journalist wondering how to lose a guy in just 10 days you are in luck! With just 4 simple skills pretty much any relationship can be destroyed. The best part!? Many people already do them in their own relationships....
Posted: July 12, 2021
There you are, sliding into a disaster like a car desperately trying to stop in the rain. The conversation is veering sharply into oncoming conflict and you’re trying to brace for impact. Just like in moments when your body believes you’re about to get into...