Posted: June 22, 2021
Hey fellow human who also probably has a small subset of humans they love having in their lives… don’t you also hate them sometimes? What’s that about? A favorite couple of mine started their journey of love while both in high school, because it would...
Posted: June 15, 2021
The phenomenal 1986 film, Flight of the Navigator was a life changing experience for young Cody. I was determined that if the aliens chose me to scan to understand humanity they were getting the entire show, then I delved deep to see all the amazing...
Posted: June 1, 2021
Very likely you are already some kind of non-monogamous , especially if you found yourself here. There are many flavors to choose from with varying degrees of types of intimacy . Serial Monogamy Strictly speaking, monogamy is having only one romantic / sexual partner… ever...
Posted: May 24, 2021
In this post we talked briefly about not necessarily breaking up, but changing how a relationship looks . The relationship escalator is the societal belief that romantic relationships must continually be working towards new milestones of commitment or they are failing. Some of us prefer...
Posted: May 17, 2021
There you are, cruising along, getting your runner’s high and it’s been a beautiful day with a wonderful workout partner. It’s only when you get to the end that you realize they’re not exactly with you. Maybe they ran faster, slower, a different trail, training...
Posted: May 10, 2021
A lot of the work I do as a therapist deals with one’s self identity and isolation. For some of us, even in a room crowded enough to give a golden retriever social anxiety we feel lonely, out of place. Some of us are in...